What if you could learn how to create desire in others by simply fostering a deeper self connection?
In this first episode of our brand new Somatica Sessions video series, Celeste guides her client Spiritchild on a journey of self connection. By finding a connection to his own erotic essence and bringing it to every interaction, Spiritichild realizes he can increase his joy, creativity, spirituality and aliveness in the world.
Discovery of the Core Problem
The episode begins with Celeste helping Spiritchild discover what blocks him from enjoying non-sexual intimacy with his partner. At first, she tests to see if his problem is centered around not feeling free to choose when he wants to do something. She comes to realize that Spiritchild disconnects from his own erotic energy and, when he does, he feels less involved and excited.
Additionally, he goes into a pleaser mode. He jumps out of the self connection state and assumes a care taking role. When he is in this pleasing role, he feels more like a provider and less like a mutually interested participant. Celeste is able to feel this, and guesses that Spiritchild’s partner has this same experience. She is likely feeling that he has left the connection and is just doing it for her. But he isn’t really there for himself.
The Path to Self Connection
Celeste gently guides Spiritchild into touching for his own pleasure. She encourages him to to see what a non-sexual interaction can do for him. Staying connected to his own erotic energy allows him to attune to himself – while at the same time attuning to his partner. Celeste can feel the difference, and makes him understand how much more connected she feels if he is also in it for himself.
When you flow your own erotic energy into yourself, you learn how to create desire with self connection. You realize you don’t need to be in a mutually desirous situation. But you are also available to move into a sexual connection if your partner responds with desire. There is never pressure to do so. By keeping your erotic energy consciously engaged, you can bring it into every moment of your life.
The Lessons Learned
Spritichild’s erotic energy is a huge part of what motivates him in his daily life. Through his Somatica work, he now realizes this intensity is about more than just his love relationships. It’s what makes him feel vital, musical, loving, and connected to spirit in every moment.
The lesson to take from Celeste’s work with Spiritchild is that people often compartmentalize sex. They believe the only time to connect with their erotic energy is when they have sex with a partner (or themselves).
With the Somatica Method, you learn to help people stop shaming their erotic energy – and instead embrace it as a natural part of who they are. You can teach them to bring this erotic self connection into their lives – and in turn bringing aliveness into their daily activities.